Are you struggling to find LOVE?
Watch as Sierra Mercier:
- Shares her wedding (The First Winner of ‘the Knot’ Dream Wedding).
- Discusses tips on how to be successful in finding LOVE.
- Shares the ‘True LOVE Lessons’.
Sierra and Andre discuss:
Do you believe true love exist? I do.
I’m Sierra. My husband Andre and I were the first couple to win the Knot Dream Wedding.
Follow me as I share how I attracted True Love into my life.
I’ll share tips and stories that will help open your heart to all of love’s possibilities.
We’re going to share lots of love stories…
Don’t play games!
Sierra: Well, for a chance…
We’ve all been there before. Trying to play the games of relationships…
I am not going to call for three days. Otherwise, I can come too eager… No! Stop playing games.
Are you looking for a real, solid relationship? Let the person you’re interested in know right upfront. Examine what you want.
Scare someone away? They’re not the right person for you.
Here’s an example… For most of my dating life, I’m used to ‘go with the flow’ type. I’d start to like someone and think to myself, we’ll just see what happens. Go with the flow. Wrong!
After several instances, of these leading to disappointment, I decided: First, I was ready for a long-term relationship and second, I was going to let the next person I date know right upfront.
When I met Andre, the very first time he kissed me, I told him I was ready for a relationship. And if he wasn’t, that’s okay. We’ve make great friends.
Andre: That caught me a little off guard but I appreciated her honesty and I had a really good feeling about it. So, I said – alright, I’m ready for a relationship too.
Sierra: We were officially boyfriend and girlfriend one week later.
Saying what you want right from the get go will save you precious time, painful heartache and will lead out toads from the prince charmings.
Tune in next time for more True Love Lessons with Sierra…
Andre: …and Andre
Sierra: Love you.
Andre: Love you.
I’m Sierra. My Husband Andre and I were the first couple to win Knot Dream Wedding.
Follow me as I share how I attracted true love into my life. I’ll share tips and stories that help open your heart to all love’s possibilities.
Hola from Costa Rica!
The right person for you is going to fall in love with you for who you are just as you are. We know that when we first start seeing someone, we all put on our best face and for good reason.
You want to show that person your best self. That’s all good. But if you continue to be anyone than yourself, you may end up attracting the wrong person. Me personally, I’m kind of a goofball. In past failed relationships, I often tried to be what I thought that person wanted me to be. Which wasn’t myself.
Or, I’d try to be myself, and it’d turned that person off. With Andre however, we were living as roommates so I had no choice but just be myself right from the beginning. I really think that’s what allowed him to fall in love with me just as I am. Not me pretending to be who I thought he wanted me to be. But just silly me!
From around the world!
I’m Sierra. My husband Andre and I were the first couple to win The Knot’s Dream Wedding. Follow me as I share how I attracted true love into my life. I’ll share tips and stories that help open your heart to all love’s possibilities. Please watch or read the full transcript of my video below.
We’re going to share lots of love stories.
Ola! Mi Amigos! From Peru! “Honesty Is the Best Policy.” “The Truth Will Set You Free.” These might be oldies but they’re goodies.
This subject can be hard to accept sometimes but deep down, in my heart of hearts, I know it to be true. In order to have the fullest, most loving, successful relationship you need to be completely honest about everything.
Once you’re in a long term, committed relationship there’s no keeping secrets.
Secrets are like weeds. At first they might seem small and harmless, but over time those weeds grow and get bigger. The longer time goes by, the harder it is to yank the roots out. So it’s best just to be honest from the start.
I learned this the hard way.
Once upon a time, I kept something from Andre because I thought it would upset him. Over time it began to fester and pain me. It was difficult to come out and be truthful but once I did I felt so much better and it made me never want to keep anything from him again.
Having an honest relationship has allowed for trust to build and a relationship built on trust is powerful!
This lesson can be applied to more than just your love life, but since this is True Love Lessons, decide; what kind of relationship do you want?
This was a key component in attracting the type of relationship I wanted.
A few years ago I decided that I was ready for a long term, committed relationship. I was tired of dating around, and annoyed with the wishy-washy types, so I proclaimed to the Universe exactly what I wanted.. I also decided that I would be upfront and honest about what I wanted with any prospective partners. (see episode 4) Within a year’s time, that long-term committed relationship manifested!
If you’re thinking, “But what if I don’t feel ready for a relationship, I just know I want more love in my life?” Whatever it is you want, be clear, be specific, and be honest.
When you paint the picture of your desired relationship, it opens the doors for you to meet the right mate.