9. LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
Close your #eyes and really listen to your heart. Listening to your heart is the key to which guy will truly make you happy. Listen to that inner voice that tells you this guy isn’t the right one. Surprisingly after you have done all the work on your lists and have considered these questions, you may find that neither guy is the right one for you. If this is the case, it’s better to realize this now than a few years down the road.
10. LIFE WITHOUT ONE
You need to play out two different scenarios in your head, one in which you break guy #1’s heart and one in which you break guy #2’s heart. Which scenario seems unbearable? Which guy would you not be able to stand losing? He’s the one you need to keep around.