17. WHICH ONE HAS POTENTIAL?
Which guy do you think has a good future in front of him? If one refuses to work, but the other is headed toward a stable career, you should think about what it says about them. You want someone who is responsible, don’t you?
18. WHAT DO THEY WANT?
If you never want to have kids, but one of the guys is set on having a huge family, then he’s not the right one for you. Unless one of you are willing to adjust your future lifestyles to make the other happy, the relationship will never work. You should choose the guy who wants the same type of future as you do.
Who are you most honest with? If you’re comfortable lying to one guy, but feel horrible when you lie to the other, then you should be with the guy you’re always honest with. You can’t have a #relationship full of lies, so definitely choose the man you’re most truthful with.
20. COMMON INTERESTS
You don’t have to have all of the same interests, but you want to have a few #things in common. If you don’t, then how will you ever pick a movie or a restaurant that you both love? Think about which guy you’ll have more exciting dates with.
21. REMEMBER LITTLE THINGS
Do you know both of their favorite colors? What about their birthdays? Their mother’s names? If you remember more little details about one guy, he’s probably the one you want to be with.
Unless you are into polyamory, you will have to choose between these two guys eventually. If both guys are in love with you, it’s not fair to keep their life in limbo. Although you might miss the other #guy, the right thing to do is to let him go so he can find his perfect mate. Ladies which of these tips helped you when you had to choose between two guys?
Curated by Erbe