5. CONSIDER YOUR FEELINGS
Think about how you feel when you are around each guy. Which one do you enjoy being with the most? Ask yourself questions like which guy do you have more fun with? Which guy is more loving towards you? Which guy are you more sexually attracted to? Which guy causes that weak in the knees feeling and gives you butterflies when you are around him?
6. LOOK FOR ANY RED FLAGS
Sometimes we wear rose-colored glasses when we are dating so we tend to overlook things we shouldn’t. It’s time to #look at the situation objectively. There may be subtle red flags popping up that you have ignored. Red flags include things like he has a negative attitude, blames other #people for his problems or is moving too quickly for you.
7. HOW DOES HE HANDLE REAL LIFE?
Think about how each guy handles real life situations. For example, how do they handle a bad day? How do they deal with unexpected challenges in life? Is he the type that will learn from his mistakes or refuse to admit he is ever wrong? Which guy is most likely to be with you through the ups and downs of life?
8. SENSE OF BEING UNFAITHFUL
When you are with one of the guys on a date, do you have a feeling in the pit of your #stomach that you are kind of cheating? Even if there isn’t a solid exclusive commitment with the other guy, it’s possible that you might feel this way. It may feel like you belong with the other person instead of the guy you are currently on the date with. Most likely this is your subconscious trying to alert you that it’s made a decision for you.