8. Mutual Masturbation
It might not be one for everyone, but Rachael says mutual masturbation can be a huge turn-on.
“If you’re nervous, start by setting the mood with some music, candles and dressing in something seductive to boost your confidence.
“Make sure that you’re comfortable and start to touch and stroke your skin, all over your body using the front and back of your hands. Watch your own hands as they glide over your body and then look up every so often to give him a cheeky smile.”
When you’ve built up enough anticipation, look him dead in the eye as you start to please yourself. Make sure to show him what you’re doing when you’re enjoying yourself before bringing yourself to full on climax. You doing this shows confidence which is incredibly sexy for him.
To help get you in the mood quicker massage yourself with Durex Pure Bliss, an erotic massager with velvet soft edges that will take you from warm and sexy to HOT and ready. He’ll never forget it…
9. Arousing the senses
Being blindfolded can be a super-kinky way to take your foreplay to the next level.
Rachael says,”Take turns to blindfold each-other and caress and tease one body part at a time with as many different textures as possible. Try using ice, feathers, silk, a paddle or whip and experiment with different techniques and sensations.”
Use toys made from glass or metal, such as icicle or njoy for an alternative sexual sensation to a vibrator or silicone dildo. Samantha says, “These can be heated in warm water to induce a warming sensation or cooled in fridge to create a breathtaking feeling especiallyaround the clitoris and when used on nipples – just like ice cubes!”
Heightening all of your senses will make each touch extra intense – have fun with it ladies.
10. Create your own sex show
Samantha says, “Men are highly visual and become aroused by just watching, so put on your very own sex show and let him see what turns you on. Tell him he can only look, not touch and use your favourite sex toy.” He’s sure to go crazy.
If you’re comfortable, add some bondage to your tease. Rachael says, “Sit your man on a chair in the middle of a room and tie his hands behind his back. Get some sexy heels on and an eye catching outfit and provocatively walk around the chair gliding your hands over his body as you go.
“When you’re ready sit on his lap facing him with your legs straddled around his waist. Dominantly move his head to one side as you lick and gently bite his neck and earlobes.Then wrap your arms around his shoulders and gyrate over his bulge without letting him enter you, with your breasts pushed against his chest until he begs to be untied.”
Use naughty bondage toys such as the Sex and Mischief range of whips, ties and blindfolds to keep him firmly secured to the bed and in his place.
Curated by Erbe
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