4. For his ears only
When it comes to stimulating your guy, sometimes you too can forget that it’s not just about the obvious areas. Dr. Pam suggests you move your attentions elsewhere…
“A much neglected erogenous zone for him is behind the ears and the earlobes. Create new sensations for him by stroking this area with your fingertips as you kiss.
Better yet if you have long nails gently scratch and tickle behind his ears. Now trace a line with your tongue around his ear lobe, and if you feel like it, start whispering the beginning of a hot fantasy into his ear.” Trust us, he’ll be up for anything after hearing it.
5. Experiment with new sensations
The trick to fiery foreplay is playing with hot and cold sensations.
Sex and Relationships Expert and columnist for GQ, Christina Wellor says, “An icy tongue on the tip of his penis or a hot mouth enveloping it, will make a blow job even more mind blowing than usual.”
Samantha recommends adding some food to the mix too. “Smear chocolate cake onto your partner’s face or blob cream on their nose. Relish licking cream or honey from his penis, just like a lollipop! Dollop some jam or chocolate spread on his nipples and listen to him squeal with pleasure as you slowly suck it off.” You’ll never think of food in the same way again.
6. Control it
Couples often find comfort in familiar things but it’s so important to try mixing it up from time to time. Try a new sex toy, or better yet, try a sex toy with a remote control.
Samantha says, “There are several remote control sex toys that you can wear to get your juices flowing, so why not try a We-Vibe Plus 4 and let your man take control of the remote. Slip it in before going to dinner (or even to the cinema) and let your man take control of your sexual pleasure”.
The element of surprise will catch them you off guard and heighten your levels of sensory experience and excitement.
7. Oral Sex for him
Sex and Relationship expert Rachael McCoy spills her sexiest secret for mind blowing oral sex for your man.
“The key to this is teasing! Don’t go straight in for the goodies. Get on your knees looking provocatively into your partners eyes, part his legs and slowly lick his inner thighs in long, soft stroking motions.
Blow over the area that you’ve just licked to create a different sensation and then lay soft, warm kisses getting closer and closer towards his naughty bits. Use your hands to run over his chest, abdomen and thighs using firm pressure. The contrast of firm and light pressure will have him just about ready to explode waiting for you to get your mouth around him.”