“I look for a woman who is confident and strong. She doesn’t have to have everything worked out, but having goals and the work ethic to get there is important. Otherwise, she’ll probably never understand why I work so hard myself. Also, the acceptance of what I like to do and not a desire or idea that I’ll stop doing it once we are together. And being a redhead doesn’t hurt!” – Matt, 33

“Someone that wants me, but doesn’t need me; is smarter than me; is jealous of me; who loves me more than I love her; who drives me to be better at what I do; who makes me feel superior, and at the same time inferior; who loves her family; and who enjoys playing sports, but not really watching them.” – Drew, 24

“Someone who doesn’t play games when she wants something; she asks for it clearly. She knows to give a guy space when he needs it, and doesn’t make him feel like s**t about it afterwards. A woman who understands that just because a guy doesn’t always want to make love— he just wants to f**k — doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you, or he’s objectifying you. And when you’ve done something to bother or hurt her, she will just say it outright … and once you apologize to her she accepts it and moves on.” – Brandon, 36

“When you find out that she swallows. No, no, actually, when I like her so much I get jealous that she might be doing other guys, that’s when I want to be monogamous.” – Jon, 34

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