- When you’re down, he empathizes with you and helps lift you back up.
The empathizing is key here because when you’re not feeling great this just doesn’t cut it: “Oh cheer up, everything will be fine.” Your man can tell when you’re sad, frustrated or angry, and sometimes he even knows before you know.
If you need space, he’ll give it to you. Otherwise, he’ll drop everything to help. Then, he’ll actually listen when you tell him about it instead of nodding his head and telling you to suck it up. To him, your partners, and when you’re down, he’s down.
- He takes exquisite care of you when you’re sick.
From the tiniest cough to the full-blown flu, he’s there for you—snot, dirty hair and all. Again, he’s not just going to say “Hang in there.” Instead, he’ll take great care of you, getting an arsenal of supplies at the pharmacy, making calls for you, and also anticipating what he knows you’ll need.
- He never forgets or neglects the small niceties.
Opening doors for a woman never gets old, nor does pulling out chairs, lifting the heavy stuff, or being the big spoon when you’re cuddling. The man who adores you knows this, and he’s on it!
You’ll see a lot of guys doing this on first dates or even for the first weeks or months of official dating. But it’s those golden boys who keep it up for the long haul who mean business. They’re in it to win it, and plus, they enjoy showering you with this sort of attention because it makes them feel like they’re taking care of you. And they are.
- In bed, you’re the priority.
Sometimes, you can almost see him taking notes in his head about what makes you go crazy in bed. That way, he always knows those tried and true moves you love, but he can also try new moves and tricks to spice it up and keep you happy.
He’s not going to completely neglect what he wants in bed, but look for him to put you first and make you most important. After all, whatever drives you crazy will drive him crazy too.