You might think that asking your friends’ opinions on the issue will help you decide, but it won’t. They don’t know the guys like you know them, and they can’t tell what you’re feeling in your heart. As difficult as it is, you’re the only one who can make this decision.

Which guy do you feel the most comfortable sharing silence with? You should be with someone who makes you happy, even when you’re just sitting on the couch together, reading separate books. His presence alone should make you smile.