How does the Daddy/Baby relationship emotionally correlate to a real life relationship with a father/parent? Does it affect change the way you view you those real life relationships?

For me, it honestly has no effect on the relationship I have with my father or any older, male relatives

As a modern woman, how do you feel in a submissive role? How do those roles coexist?

I have found that ‘alphas’, regardless of gender, tend to swing slightly submissive when behind closed doors. People outside of this world seem to have a difficult time comprehending that it is a game; he is not just some asshole, abusive boyfriend. Also, as a feminist and modern woman, I will absolutely exercise my right to work hard, have a successful ‘normal’ career AND indulge my sexual fetishes and fantasies. I usually question how a person can exist without some kind of dichotomy.

A lot of times these men offer money in terms or paying for things you might need – is that always the case? If it is, is that just the icing on top or the driving force for you to pursue these relationships?

There can be a gift exchange element in these relationships. There are tons of ads on Craigslist (let’s not act like we’ve NEVER looked through the ‘gig’ section when we were over going into the office or waking up hungover to work a horrendous brunch shift), and men are advertising payment for a ’sub’ or ’Sugar baby’. There are a handful of websites dedicated to connecting Sugar daddies with Sugar babies and those relationships almost always guarantee a gift exchange, but they are not necessarily Daddy/baby or Master/sub type of relationships unless you specifically express that in your profile.

My first experience involved no gift exchange of any kind, it was pure pleasure.

The second Master I had was a man with whom I have never had any sexual contact and there has been no gift exchange, it was all mental and emotional.

However, my third (and current) Daddy relationship does contain a gift exchange element (which includes a monthly allowance and additional gifts as I need them) and that is definitely an added bonus.