4. Loyalty runs deep.

His kids have a mother, and they might worry about being disloyal to her if they like you. You’ll be the subject of speculation for a while. So again, take things slowly and build trust. Reassure the kids that you are not replacing anybody — you are an addition to their lives.

5. When you’re dating a man with kids, emergencies will inevitably come up, schedules will shift, and your plans might have to go by the wayside.

It comes with the territory. You and your boyfriend aren’t the only people to consider in your relationship, so it’s important to adjust your mindset if you are used to having things your way most of the time. It’s all about compromise and acceptance. You’ve got to roll with it.

6. His kids will surprise you.

One day you’ll feel like you can’t catch a break no matter what you say or do, and the next your boyfriend’s kids say something incredibly sweet or confide in you or make you laugh. Expect the unexpected.

7. Extend your circle of love.

This might sound hokey to some, but the more love you can share with your boyfriend and his children, the more it will come back to you. There will be times when you feel overwhelmed or scared or unsure. You may find yourself holding back. Remember that you won’t always say or do the right thing. You will make mistakes. So will your boyfriend and his children. But after a while, most kids won’t remember what you say. They will remember how you made them feel.

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