8. You Get Their Quirks
“A sign that you are compatible is that you understand the person in a way that others would not know,” BetterHelp telehealth counselor and psychologist Nikki Martinez tells Bustle. They open up about things that might not be immediately obvious because you make them feel comfortable.
Sure, a feeling of relaxation when you’re together rules, but this is about your partner opening up to you about quirks, weird secrets, strange habits, and the like (and you doing the same). “When you are completely at ease, and can be yourself, when you find yourself compelled to tell them something you have never told anyone, you know you are compatible, and you know this relationship has an ease others have not,” Martinez says. Get comfy and enjoy!
9. You Both Sleep In The Nude
A weird sign, indeed! Cindi Sansone-Braff, author of Grant Me a Higher Love, tells Bustle: “You love to sleep next to this person and feel the warmth your bodies generate together, You find yourselves cuddling each other throughout the night. You wake up in the morning happy to see each other, and because you’re already naked, morning sex comes as natural as the sun rising in the East.” Well, she does paint a pretty compelling picture.
10. You Pee In Front Of Each Other
“True compatibility is the two of you just being yourselves around each other,” dating expert Noah Van Hochman tells Bustle. “OK, going to the bathroom with the door open is right up there, but that’s a bit too much information!” Let’s just all pray that he means … number one. Barring that, “the weirdest sign that you are truly compatible is actually one of the most difficult to notice, as it really isn’t a sign at all. It’s just ‘being yourself.’ When you don’t need to be on your best behavior or put on a show in order to bolster your confidence or self-esteem, you show that you can just be yourself around your partner.” And then everyone is happy, because no one likes to put on a big song and dance to feel loved, and no one likes to sense that the person they’re with is song-and-dancing it up.
11. You’re Comfortable With Silence
Wait, I lied. I know I said I couldn’t think of a lot of compelling ways to tell you and bae are like