My partner isn’t keen on the idea

If your partner isn’t keen on you using a sex toy, use it on your own or try to encourage them that using a sex toy is not replacing them but improving what you already share. It can increase trust and closeness between you and your partner. You may also find your inner sex kitten which many men will love.

I don’t want to scare my partner

Some men feel that they won’t match up to what a sex toy can do and they may be replaced by a vibrator. This couldn’t be more wrong. A third of Brits admitted to using sex toys to improve their sex life. Using sex toys together enhances sexual pleasure for both people involved.

You don’t need to buy the biggest vibrator available. Bigger is not necessarily better, it is the power of the vibrations and where and how you want to use it that matters. Also, you don’t want to frighten your partner away. Many vibrator virgins buy a smaller toy to begin with and graduate to a larger one, according to their needs.

There is no single sex toy which is right for everyone. We all have differing sexual needs and experimenting with a variety of products will enable you to find the perfect toys for you. There are many sex toys available for both sexes which provide enormous pleasure. If you have a bad experience with one toy, don’t give up: try something else. You may find that once you have persuaded your partner to try a sex toy, they will be hooked and will want to try more so don’t be afraid to use one.

I feel uncomfortable buying one from a shop

With the advent of the internet it has never been easier to buy sex toys. It is so easy to buy a high quality sex toy online in the comfort and privacy of your home. There are many sex toy websites selling a vast array of products. Ensure that you buy from a reputable supplier, selling good quality toys, preferably made from silicone, glass or metal. Latex or rubbery products contain nasty materials harmful to health and are difficult to keep clean. You need to make sure that your details are not passed on to third parties or that you will not be swamped with unwanted emails or catalogues. A reputable company will not do this. You can also find adverts selling luxury sex toys in the classified section of some magazines if you are not internet savvy. Reputable suppliers are discreet and will dispatch your product in plain packaging and some ask for a signature to ensure it has been delivered to the right person.

So stop worrying that using a sex toy can ruin your sex life, it will only enhance your pleasure and promote good sexual health.

Curated by Erbe
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