How else do you work feet into your sex life?
Woman A: I like to worship my guy’s feet. I like to caress them and grip them softly with my hands. Tease his toes with my lips to kiss, give it soft licks with my tongue and suck it softly to get his attention. That will lead to other things…
Man A: Foot jobs are awesome, but they’re not the only thing you can do. You can worship her feet, which includes kissing, licking, massaging them, sucking her toes, smelling them — if you’re into that. There are different moments to do those things. For instance, I don’t mind giving my girlfriend a foot massage when she asks for one, but sometimes those innocent massages put her in the mood and can turn into something else. I love it when that happens. Certain positions, such as the ones where you can put her ankles on your shoulders, allow you to lick her feet or suck her toes. I’m also into female dominance, during which feet can be used in many ways, but that’s a different story.
Man B: Sniff them, inhaling deeply.
How do you bring up your interest in feet with your partner(s)?
Woman A: Early in the relationship, when I gave him a pedicure, he started to keep his feet clean. I loved that about him. I always look at his feet whether we are outside or in the house. I tell him how his feet look nice and smooth, then I slowly massage his feet with grip, and I like it when he says “mmm.”
Man A: I don’t have a problem with confidence about this fetish, so I just mention it at some early point in the relationship. Maybe I start by complimenting her feet, or I kiss them after giving her a massage, but sometimes during the “ankles on shoulders” positions I instinctively lick her soles and she ends up asking. The best thing is to be direct.
Man B: Stick my wife’s toes in my mouth. Just start sucking.
What’s the best/worst reaction you’ve had from someone?
Man A: The best reaction was when she ended up being the one asking me to worship her feet after I introduced her to my fetish. The worst, I don’t know, I guess when another woman didn’t like it, but at least she tried. I’ve been lucky in that respect — like my 17-year-old self, my partners have been curious about it instead of just calling me a freak and never considering it.
Man B: The best reaction was licking someone’s foot in a club who I had only just met (the grimey foot mentioned above).
Do you have any advice for Cosmo readers considering exploring a foot fetish?
Woman A: If you are curious about it, explore it with your partner. Play around with his foot with your own. If your partner takes good care of their feet, give a compliment and caress them. Have fun with it. #FootFetish.
Man A: I guess “don’t knock it till you try it,” really. A foot fetish is one of the most innocuous fetishes out there. It’s also safe sex. If you give it a try and discover you like it, then that’s great, and if it does nothing to you, at least you’ll have a fun/awkward story.
Man B: Just go for it. Don’t resist. #FEET.
Curated by Erbe
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