Best ways to make her orgasm: WOMAN share honest advice on how to give them better orgasms. Read more.
Making a woman reach the big-O can be a daunting task for even the most experienced lover.
Female orgasms can also be a subject that people find incredibly hard to talk about.
So a group of women have anonymously written a collection of 72 shorts essays enlightening men on the key to a great orgasm.
Simple named ‘How to Make Me Come’, the blog speaks openly about how to pleasure a woman.
Women were asked: “Imagine you could give this essay to a past or future sexual partner, free of judgment or repercussion. What would you want them to know?”
The results are some extremely frank sex tips that combined create a wealth of knowledge on how to be a stallion in the sack.
Many of the posts have humorous titles, but each of them make pleasurable points.
Here are some of the top sex tips shared on the blog:
GIVE HER ORAL – BUT BE GENTLE
One woman said: “When you are going down on me, begin by just making out with my pussy. Just lay sweet kisses all over it, then focus on my clit. Be gentle. I repeat, be gentle.
“Circles with your tongue are great. I hate flicking. I see it in porn all the time and I don’t get it. Let your tongue be wide and slightly firm, I HATE that thing when a tongue gets all hard and pointy at the tip.”
While another expressed the importance of oral sex.
“I dated a man for 6 months. He went down on me a total of 2 times and I didn’t orgasm once,” she said.
“Oral sex is the Mecca, it’s the feeling to end all feelings.”
BE PATIENT WITH HER ORGASMS
In a post titled ‘The Closest I’ve Cum to Cumming’ an anonymous, 32-year-old woman reveals that she’s never had an orgasm and invites people to ask her questions about it.
She writes: “Be kind to yourself. Don’t focus so much on climaxing during sexual experiences try and focus on sensations, what feels good.”
“Choose generous, loving partners who are patient and warm. Be honest with your sexual partners and let them know where you’re at.”
“If they are good guys or girls, they will stick around and explore with you. There can be no intimacy if you’re faking it or performing.”
While another pointed out that, when it comes to the female orgasm, patience is key.
“It takes a while. Sometimes I’ll masturbate for 45 minutes before I get anywhere,” she said.
STAY FOCUSSED ON HER
In one post a woman described how her ex would look visibly bored while attempting to pleasure her.
“You would finger me and would clearly be so annoyed by how long it was taking. It made me incredibly anxious. Every. Single. Time.”
TALK TO EACH OTHER
A lot of the women said they were too nervous to tell their partner what they really wanted to their face.
“Somehow the idea of a man being told what to do to please a woman sexually has come to be seen as insulting,” said one woman.
While another wrote: “I would be too ashamed to say, ‘Hey, this isn’t working for me’ because I would want them to think I was easy going and had had tons of experience.”I’d be so concerned with their finishing that I’d ignore my own. I would be too frightened to admit I wasn’t sure I knew what I wanted.”
These essays are just a tiny glimpse into the female orgasm and each woman is different. However, if you ask her what she wants, really listen and have patience you’ll get there in the end.
Curated by Karinna
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