You Know Who You Are: The way women self identify, meaning comfort with your sexual identification “Being a Lesbian” is important to your full satisfaction in and out of the bedroom.

Pleasure You Can Translate: Woman to woman, physiologically you know each other. You can translate that inner visceral understanding rapidly into comprehensive know-how to reach the heart of your partner’s pleasure zone.

Sexy Togetherness— Let’s not under value, engaging with a “familiar” partner.  More women find trust, comfort, bonding and dare we say LOVE, foundational to liberating their orgasmic response.

Eye to Eye– When it comes to your love, you identify outside of the social conforms of a “who’s on top,” dominate, subordinate paradigm. A natural, mutual reciprocity in pleasure is a highly valued reality to you.

Orgasmic Creativity—You are creating the handbook for sex and orgasmic pleasure in real time. As one of my frank lesbian colleagues confided recently, Lesbian porn is really bad. While you may not agree with that sentiment, when you are not overwhelmed, thank Goddess, by an extensive library of predetermined ways to go about a certain sexual experience, you are freer to invent. Ladies, you explore, you discover, you share your findings and in essence you create your own art form. Clearly you are doing it well.

Kinsey Institute gets granular about orgasm in the human female. They state orgasm is a variable transient peak sensation of intense pleasure, creating an altered state of consciousness, usually with an initiation accompanied by involuntary, rhythmic contradictions of the pelvic striated circumvaginal musculature and uterine and anal contractions …..with an induction of wellbeing and contentment. That is a sensory, scientific mouthful!

My point of view, orgasm cracks us open.  Rocks our physical and interior worlds. What more meaningful, sharable experience to enjoy!