Good Advice for Everyone:
- Don’t rush in! Get to know each other, have a drink, flirt. The more comfortable you are, the more fun you’ll have.
- Don’t get too drunk- issues like communication, consent, and staying on the same page get harder to parse when you’ve had more than a few. I’ve been in situations where I had to say “You don’t have to get me drunk to sleep with you guys, I want to anyway!” Don’t judge me.
- Once the mood is right, make a move. Oh, so exciting! It’s like seven minutes in heaven but for grownups.
- Stay in the game. Even if the other two people are very busy with each other, caress or kiss and stay involved. Don’t sit back and pout if you’re the third wheel for a second! Manners are important.
- On the other side, when you’re in a threesome, don’t leave anyone out. Again, manners! Even if you just reach over to touch them, keep them involved and connected.
Good Advice for The Man:
- Always split your attention evenly between the women, and when in doubt, lavish more attention on your partner. If you’re having fun, and she is, too, you could be in this position again. Go to great lengths to avoid making her jealous.